How Does a Prostate Massager Work: 5 Things You Should Know

By  //  June 20, 2022

Prostate massagers are gaining in popularity for men looking to increase their sexual experience and gain potential health benefits. Curious about how they work? Let us help.

The prostate is located between the rectum and the bladder. It’s a gland that is about the size of a walnut. Often, the prostate is referred to as the male G-spot because when stimulated, the prostate can produce intense orgasms for men.

A prostate massager is a sex toy that targets the prostate to help men derive pleasure. Read on for five things you need to know about how prostate massagers work. 

When To Use A Prostate Massager

Prostate massagers are great for use during self-pleasure. Many men also use their massager during sex with their partner. If you’re looking to spice up your masturbation session or increase intimacy with your partner, a prostate massager makes the perfect addition. If you are concerned about your prostate health, you can use the device on yourself as well, without the intention of climaxing.

As for positions that work well for using a massager, there are many options. Some men use their massager while lying on their back with knees up and legs spread while others enjoy using the device while lying on their side in the fetal position. Experiment with variations of these positions to find one that works best for you.

Inserting the Massager

Prostate massagers are inserted into the anus. You should insert the massager slowly and carefully. Never force insertion and if you feel pain, stop immediately and remove.

Your rectum and your massager should be well-lubricated before insertion. Proper lubrication ensures the devices can move freely and easily throughout. Insufficient lubrication can cause discomfort, so if your experience become uncomfortable, remove the prostate massager and reapply your lubricant.

If you’re using a device with a head that curves like the Giddi Tomo Come Hither Prostate Massager, angle the curve upward toward your stomach. The secondary head, should your device have one like the Tomo, should touch your perineum, which is located between the anus and scrotum. The placement of the curve of your device is important, as this is how the device will access your prostate properly.

Massaging Features

Prostate massagers have vibration modes to stimulate the prostate. The head, which is curved to provide optimal reach for accessing the prostate, delivers precise strokes to the prostate with a perfect amount of pressure and consistency. Varying massage speeds allow you to build up your climax to control your orgasm. 

Essentially, the massage features mimic what could be done when manually massaging the prostate. However, it’s not always possible to get the right angles and motions through manual stimulation, and eventually, your hand would get tired or cramped from the motion. The massaging features provide unlimited pleasure in a hands-free style that allows you to lie back, relax, and climax.

The Tomo comes equipped with all the massage features you need to create an intense experience that could be different each time you use it. The device has nine intense vibration modes and three come hither speeds that result in hypnotizing dual sensations and intense hands-free orgasms.

Using The Right Lube

It is highly recommended that you use lube when inserting your massager. You will especially want to use plenty if it is your first time. You will begin your experience feeling much more at ease when the insertion is comfortable and your overall experience will be more enjoyable. Lubricants also ensure your device functions properly.

Water-based lubricants are best for prostate massagers, particularly those made with silicone, like the Tomo.  Petroleum-based or silicone-based lubricants and hybrids are not recommended as these can cause your device to deteriorate, which not only lowers the longevity of the device but can cause a risk of use. Due to the sensitive nature of the tissues inside your rectum, the use of oils or creams as lubricants are not recommended.

Cleaning Your Prostate Massager

You should always clean your prostate massager before and after using it. Cleaning the device is fairly easy and requires simple ingredients. All you need is warm water and antibacterial soap. Avoid using soaps or cleansers that contain alcohol, petrol, or acetone. After you clean your massager with warm water and soap, pat the device dry with a lint-free towel.

Now that you know how a prostate massager works, it’s time to enjoy its benefits. Your next (and likely most intense) orgasm is just within your reach when you buy a massager to intensify your next sexual experience.